We have been to an 80th birthday celebration today in Mebane, NC for a member of Chris' side of the family (black.) Close to the end of the party, a few guys showed up to take down the tents. There were 2 black guys included, one had dreads and the other had corn rows with beads. Within earshot of the 2 guys, Keely (practically yelling) says, "Who invited the gangsters to the party?"